i noticed this really cute guy around campus but i didnt even know his name. a couple months went by an i found out that my best friend had a thing with a guy who i'll call matt and it turned out that matt was best friends with the guy who i thought was really cute and ill call him casey. so we all decided to hang out one day an casey an kinda hooked up. we pretty much only made out an right when we were about to leave i took his phone an put my number in it. three weeks went by an i hadnt heard anything from him but then a couple days after that he texts me an we talked some an decided to hang out. he took me out to the boonies an we got in the back of his car an started hanging out an he started to pressure me into giving him head but i really really didnt want to an i made that very clear so he started calling me a tease an all this mean stuff so i made him take me back home an we didnt talk for a couple months. then he texted me an we talked a lot an i started to really fall for him but i knew that he only saw me as a hook up but i decided to keep it going cause i thought that one day he would start to see me as more. after 2 months i got really upset cause he only wanted sex so we got in a huge fight. this cycle repeated numerous times. he was mentally abusive. i was never good enough for him. i am 5 4 an i weigh 112 lbs an he told me i should probably start working out more. (i run everyday). i wanted a relationship but he told me he doesnt like them cause he sees what they do to people an he said what we have is kind of like relationship without the label. i feel into his scheme. when problems arose i tried to work them out like civilized people an he would bitch that were not going out an i said i know an he said well your talking about relationship stuff an a;lsdjkl;adfsadfls it was so frustrating! i got to a point where i resented everything he was. there was only three places we hung out: my bed, his bed, and the back of his car. i wanted more.. you know like go the beach or the movies.. you know normal stuff but he said no. i got so tired of his negligence an verbal abuse so i tried to put it to an end once and for all. what he was doing to me was not healthy an i needed to get out. we had a huge 3 day bitch out. screaming at each other at school in front of everyone an after school he would call me to bitch at me more so i would hang up but he would just keep calling i plainly told him that i never want to hear from him or see him again an he said he doesnt take orders from little girls (he's about 2 1/2 years older than me) an that he'll stop calling me when he has said everything he needs to say. finally we got rational an he kind of appoligized an i dont know why but i forgave him. i told him i wanted him to act more like he actually liked me an he did for about two or three days then he went back to his old self but i realized he would never be what i wanted him to be an that i just had to remind myself that he did care about me. he and i are very honest, if he hooks up with another girl he tells me so its only fair that i do the same. well i hooked up with a pretty popular guy who was in his grade who i will call jake. now everytime i tell him i miss him he'll say something really dumb like i bet you wish you were with jake an just dumb stuff like that. i really want him to commit to me but a relationship to him is like 1/4th of a step under marriage.. i know i probably shouldnt be with him but i care about him way to much
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on-going twisted 'hook up'
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Posted 1 month ago #
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i kinda know what ur going thru. i've been hooking up with this guy and he keeps pressuring me to do different kinds of stuff with him but i keep telling him no. he'll a[ologize say stuff like hes sorry, he shouldnt have been rushing me and stuff like that but then the next day its the same thing. hes 5 years older than me so i feel immature whenever i tell him no. he says just sneak out of my house but i cant sometimes and he says ok, we'll just hang out 2marrow. but then he says i owe him. plus another reason i keep hooking up with him is, im fat, and hes not, and i think he'll be the only guy who will want, me and if i stop hooking up with him, then i'll just be alone forever, kuz no one wants to be with the fat girl. so i kinda know how u feel. not all the way but just enough.
Posted 1 month ago # -
omgosh im so with you on the immaturity level!! he always tried to "help me" but then he left his house cause his mom stole his weed that he just bought an i was actually trying to help him an he just started yelling at me! an baby girl the guy that would judge you on your weight wouldnt be right for you. if your confident an know that your hott shit then they will be even more attracted to you! its all about confidence! an ever woman is beautiful in her own unique way so find your beauty an guys will be crawling on their knee's... oh an watch some tyra banks shows ;) her weight ones have actually really helped me!
Posted 1 month ago # -
man. you dont need him. find someone better, i know it'll be hard but just try. and thanks. i know ur right, i just have a hard time ya know? haha yeah i love tyra lol. but you and me, we should find us some better guys. ones that will respect us and like us for who we are, not what we'll do with them. ;] theres gotta be some decent guys out there
Posted 1 month ago # -
i have tried soooo many time to leave him an some how he convinces me to come back. ive brought up that he treats me like shit an he's just like no im nice you just dont notice afsjladfsjkl. an there are nice guys out there they are just boring. i went out with my best friend cause i knew he was a nice guy but he was just so boringggg as a friend i love him but mean guys are just more interesting i dunno haha. maybe thats just me being weird..
Posted 1 month ago # -
I've been in a relationship almost exactly like this and i know its not fun but you have to get out or its just gonna get worse I'm sure you have friends and your probally gonna need them for this. You can do soooooo much better and I promise you , you can live without him and you'll find someone who does actually care and not just wanna screw you.
Posted 1 month ago # -
fuck its like so hard though! an my friends HATE him an they dont really know that were kinda sorta back together an theyd kill me if they knew
Posted 4 weeks ago #
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