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   nobodytoloveme
   

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   Joined: Aug '08
   

   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year now and i love him a lot, but it seems like i am always saying the wrong things and taking things the wrong way. Not only that but i also get angry or sad a lot. I thought it was the birth control that i was on but then i remembered that i was like this before i got on it. It scares me because i don't want to hurt him or lose him. He is a great boyfriend but i cant seem to figure out what is setting me off all the time. When i get mad at him it seems like i have to make him wrong or yell at him and i don't want to do that. I am not a controlling or aggressive person so i don't know why all of a sudden i am. If anybody could help me figure it out please please please tell me.

   Posted 3 months ago #
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   FreeTherapist
   

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   Joined: Aug '08
   

   Honey I wouldn't worry about it. If you think you are causing a major trouble int his relationship I would suggest sitting him down and talking about it. If that scares you (or him) then try to figure out what is causing all of these emotions. Set aside a time where you can just sit and breathe. Make sure you are completely comfortable either with music or without. Block out all noise and all thoughts and just relax. Five minutes of this can help enourmosly (sp?).

   -Aly

   Posted 3 months ago #
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   nobodytoloveme
   

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   Joined: Aug '08
   

   Thank you. I'll try

   Posted 3 months ago #
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   franchesca
   

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   Joined: Aug '08
   

   You know I had a similar problem...I seemed to get extra sensitive and annoyed with my boyfriend for little things. I too blamed it on my birthcontrol but realized that the no mater what the cause was, I was the only one who could change my behavior.
   Luckily I have a very patient and understanding boyfriend and he didnt take my behavior personal.
   What I really had to do was analyze what was really making me upset. Was I being jealous because my boyfriend was untrustworthy or because I was insecure about something? When I ask myself these questions then I realize that it was coming from me and I needed to work on myself in order to change my behavior and not get so emotional over little things.

   Bottom line.....I learned not to sweat the little stuff. If its not truely important dont bother complaining or fighting about it. Its really not worth the effort!

   Hope this helps!

   Posted 3 months ago #

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