Have you ever had a friend that always wanted to be the center of attention or was your friend one day and not the next? Well I have and honestly I'm SICK of it. In my circle of friends there are 5 of us and we are all girls, 2 of them have known each other since the age of 8 and the other 2 since 3rd grade. I met all of them about 7 years ago and we all meshed well together. So we thought. It wasnt until recently that one of our "best friends" started to change with us, especially me! She changed a lot and to her it wasn't about the "5 amigos" anymore it was about her and making new friends with all the wrong people. This "friend" of mine would always make me the butt of her meanest jokes but I never confronted the situation I just let everything go. Until about 2 days ago. This "friend" had an away message saying that she was somewhere where she had no service and then underneath it it said "you guys are pathetic". So me and my best friend were wondering who is she calling pathetic. So i imed her and imed her and imed her but she didn't answer, and when she did answer she was rude about the whole situation. She caught an attitude with me about why am I iming her if she doesn't have service and that her phone keeps vibrating because of the ims (but wait how is it possible to recieve an im if u dont have service? IT ISN'T) she just didnt want to answer me. Then she tells me that she doesnt have to explain anything to me and for me to stop iming her PERIOD!!. That really ticked me off. Then I look at her away message and it says "You need to take your medication you A.D.D. bytch". I knew that this was aimed towards me because all my friends call me A.D.D. So my away said NO COMMENT because ur below me!! But in reality i was stooping down to her childish level by even putting something in my away. So I took mine off but like the child that she is she left her's there. I called my other best friends and they grew very angry at the fact that she snapped at me for something that wasn't even that big of a deal. She then wanted to hang up the phone telling my friend to mind her business etc. So I imed her after numerous attempts of calling her and her not answering my calls. And asked her what is the reason for her acting like such a bytch and she dared to say that " Its not that i am a bytch, I am just on a higher level than you which is something you will never understand". This put me over the edge. How dare she disrespect me like that?! I wanted to hurt this girl so badly. But as payback I am just not going to make her head any bigger then it all ready is. Its so big she could fit a whole house in there...lol. I deleted her out of my phone and out of my life, lets she how she turns out in hers...
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Posted 2 months ago #
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YES!I HAVE GONE THROUGH SOME CASE LIKE THIS.
Posted 2 months ago # -
yes... that's kinda like my situation... my ex best friend is always like... yea i'll talk to a guy for you... give me his number and i'll text him for you...
of course i'll trust her i mean she's my best friend...
but this time... she texted him for herself... and he went with her instead of me...
i hate it when that happens... then when i tried to fix it with him... she got mad at me telling me that i'm a bad friend for trying to take her guy... i'm just like are you serious... well now she wants to beat me up... but she's all talk... i really don't know how to handle this... b/c i dont' wanna get into a fist fight with her... but i don't wanna just let it go... what to do??
♥.abPosted 2 months ago # -
wow..sounds like these girls just want to be something else & want to have something else.its maybe about popularity or about the guy. but friends move on. your never going to have a friend forever.its never like that. So dont worry. karma's a bitch & in the end, they will have to run back to you and deciding on if your the bigger person & will take them back or not is totally up to you:) revenge is a bitchh:P hahaha
Posted 1 month ago # -
be confident, its human psychology nothing else, she is doing all this coz she is afraid of u , it seems like u r better than her in something special, think what it can be?
Posted 1 month ago # -
I have had friends like this and i found it is better to ignore them and when they wanna become friends agian and if you are ready to be friends agian then watch your back because if they did it once they will do it agian....
Posted 1 month ago # -
I seriously can relate to you! I had a case just like this one in 8th grade. the result was that i confronted her about her action and what she was doing but she denied it and turned it around at me, saying, "How would you feel if someone said this to you?" So what i did was i turned around and walked away. She was angry at me but i didnt care... If she wanted to act like a bitch, fine with me. I dont really talk to her now but she txts me frequently and always asks me, How are you!? ltns (long time no speak) and i was going to txt back, Well, who's fault was that? but i didnt because i learned that when you stoop down to someone's level, the matter only gets worse.
Posted 1 month ago # -
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Posted 1 month ago # -
Ha me too just recently...God does anybody want to here Okay well yer gona anyway. Okay so me and this girl had been friends for three years. We got on really well and never fought. Well she always stuck by me&&vis versa!! So we had this MASSIVE fall out with this other girl and we told each other all bout what she was saying behind our backs. I told her I bitched about her to this gilr and she thanked me for being honest. There was also another girl who was in on this. Then I told her in October of Last year that I was raped in july of that year and she didn't believe me. Now she had no reason not to. I never lied to her or did anything bad to her. It really put me down and made me hold off telling the police.
Anyway she stared to act differnt turn snobby and all the rest when we got back to school. She was being a bitch to her so called BFF and let her for another gilr..o but she was always with her when the other girl wasn't around.
So ya i was wrong but i told her so called bff that she said somthing about her.
Then she went physco and we stopped talking. This was in Febuary of this year.
So me and her so called bff got talking again like 2 months ago. She went physco again then a few weeks ago she was saying aloda stuff about me and that if the girl talked to me she wouldn't talk to her.But that girl wasn't talking to her either because she called her dad a drunk So i txt her and
said: It's fine if you don't talk to me but don't make that girl choose and if you have a problem with me say it to me not to anybody else.She replied: Ya i do get your own friends.
I replied: Do you own her?
She replied: No but you don't even know her you cant just decide to hang around with her because you broke up with your boyfriend!Shes my friend....<<<By the way me&my boyfriend are BFFS and me and the other girl and me were talking long before we broke up>>> Anyway
I replied:I'll habg around with who ever the fuck I want to.She can talk to me if she want's it's her own choice..I don't try to influance her choices either should you. She replied: When were not taking it's kind of hard isnt it.She wont talk to you if I dont talk to you.Shes hardly going to leave me for you.
I replied:I never asked her to leave you I wouldn't stop to that low. I'd never need to ask sombody to choose.
She replied: Well thats the way I am if i ask her not to she wont ya so just stay with your ex and do me a favour I'm not the only one who's not talking to you in the group.
I replied: Ok you be like that. thats funny cause iv been talking to the other girls today so explain who's not talking to me? She replied:Things change ******* only gave you a dress. *****(the girl in question)stoped talking to *** cause i told her to so whats the differance..!!******* wont anyway..!
I replied: Im not trying to steel the girl.I wanted to be civilised ask the girls..peopel usto tell me you were controling and now i see it..you need to cop onyou can't control of peoples lifes. She replied:Haha em i don't care what they think of me and i don't care what you think of me.Cause i have friends atleast!aft3er not talking for nearly a year you can't just start hanging around with my closest friend like everythings normal.You want to talk to them unless i was so just get real and get other friends if thats possible..!!
I replied: I feel sorry for you I dont have to worry about losing any of my friends unlike you you're sad i actually feel sorry for you whta will happen to you when you stop getting spoilt can't se you having a bright future sad..O n get real.. You don't know the meaning of the word.
She replied: Ok whatever you think ya fool!Im spoilt? Ha ur the sad one!How would I not know the meaning of the word? your the one who left school and wasting your life being a bum.Just get over it there not going to talk to you.
I replied: O ya instlting..No i said that cause its the truth most of the people you know wer calloing you it anyway..O and you don't know fuck about me.I left schoolfor good reasons!!I'll talk to who evr the fuck i want..Oo and heres a word of advise in life your going to have to talk to peopele you don't like but when your older you cant resort to childish name calling. O wow you think you got one over on me because you called me a name. It don't mean shitat the end of the day.I txt you to sort somthing out cause im not into immature back stabbing and bitching not to have a pety little fight with sombody who means fuck all to me Goodluck..Delete this number.
She replied: Ha i already deleted it you fool!You're nothing but a backstaber wa yo on about> Il have a better future than you.yeah you left school cause you stole money..ya have to steal to ge tby in life.Go sort your life out!
I replied: Sorry mabey i didnt make it clear Goodluck ment end of conversation. Good bye.
Now some of the stuff she said about me was i used her?? For what?? I got a girl into drugs!! Which i didnt..I steel to get by in life.. Am ya the odd time my family have no money unlike hers she gets around 30-40 a day!!
But guys/girls there's a morel in this story don't count your chickens before they hatch
She has now nobody but *******!!
Ha and I never asked them to pick..I said id talk to them no matter what.
It proves that bitchyness and controling makes peopele dislike you!
Sorry i know that was really long!!
x
Posted 1 month ago # -
it sucks to lose someone when u remeber what they once were and how great everything was but, the past is the past and u dont need a "friend" like that when all they r doin is bringing u down. Sometimes it is best to just let them go....trust me it all works out eventually.
Posted 1 week ago # -
I wouls have kicked this girls behind.
i dont let anybody disrespect me if she wants to be a preppy little girl then so be it
but you should have slapped her, childish or not...atleast she wouldnt mess with you anymore.Posted 1 day ago #
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